Monday, November 10, 2025

Martinmas: The Festival of Compassion and Light November 11

As autumn deepens and darkness stretches its fingers earlier each evening, November 11 arrives as a sacred pause: the feast of Martinmas, honoring St. Martin of Tours. Again, like Michaelmas (see September post), Martinmas is not a United Methodist or Protestant tradition, but something I learned while we were a part of the Waldorf community when the boys were in preschool. In the Waldorf tradition, Martinmas is often called the Festival of Compassion, a moment to kindle, in our souls and in our lanterns, the light that warms and transforms. That is a timely reminder, when looking at the news or scrolling my feed feels, well, dark. We know that the best way to find ourselves or to get out of our own head is to help someone else. 

I love this festival because it reminds us what our world so desperately needs: mercy, light, and compassion.we see what a moment of kindness, a word or act means. After Michaelmas (celebrated September 29) teaches us courage when facing life’s dragons, Martinmas teaches us what to do with that courage: to turn outward and share warmth. If dragons (injustice, despair, fear) are defeated first by courage, the second act is to bring light to others.

Martin and the beggar: The celebrated legend tells that Martin, a Roman soldier, once encountered a poor man shivering at the gates of Amiens. Moved by compassion, Martin cut his warm cloak in half and gave one part to the beggar, sacrificing his own comfort to bring warmth.  That night, Martin dreamed he saw Christ wrapped in that very cloak, confirming that in loving others we love Christ Himself. 

In Waldorf circles, this story is told and sometimes acted out for children and adults alike. It becomes a way for us to see that our small acts of mercy matter, that the light we offer—even if fragile—touches the deepest realities. That act of mercy is often compared to the light of Christ. This is why the craft or activity of Martinmas is often to make lanterns. 

Light runs like a thread through Christian Scripture: “The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness did not overcome it.” (John 1:5) “You are the light of the world.” (Matthew 5:14) In our human lives, darkness is real—fear, loneliness, injustice, coldness. But we are called not only to resist the darkness but to bring illumination. We are called to DO SOMETHING  in response to need, injustice, suffering…

The conclusion of the festival of Martinmas, children and adults carry lanterns in quiet, reverent processions at dusk. The flickering light reminds us that even a small light matters in the dark.  As one Waldorf teacher put it, we are giving protection to our inner little flame as we carry it through the world.

There is a poem that is sometimes sung:

“Bring forth your gentle spark, Illuminate the dark. Those trembling in the night. Receive your shining light.”

These lines echo the very spirit of Martinmas: the gentle spark is not a blazing torch, but a courageous heart, a gracious gesture, a whisper of warmth into coldness. May this Martinmas stir us to kindle our inner light, to clothe those cold and hurting with compassion, and to walk forward in mercy with courage as our guide.


Wednesday, October 8, 2025

How to use “Magic questions” in Ministry Settings

Most of us know what it’s like to sit in a room full of people and realize the conversation never goes deeper than weather, schedules, or sports. We’re surrounded by voices, but not always connection. In ministry, that can happen just as easily—fellowship hours, committee meetings, even small groups sometimes stay in the realm of polite talk or simply focus on the task to the exclusion of the humans in the room. The old “this meeting could have been an email.” What we crave is something real, something purposeful and connecting.

That’s why I love a practice from author and facilitator Priya Parker, who writes in The Art of Gathering about the power of asking what she calls magical questions. “A magical question,” she says, “is a question that everyone in your group is interested in answering—and hearing the answers to.”

I talk about this often. These kinds of questions help us move past small talk and into stories. They aren’t icebreakers or tricks; they’re gentle invitations to honesty and curiosity. Parker offers examples like:

  • What was the first concert you went to, and who took you?
  • What’s a path you almost took but didn’t?
  • What’s a gift you got that you deeply loved?

These little questions sound simple—but something holy happens when we ask them. They draw out laughter, memory, and meaning. Everyone can answer, and everyone wants to listen. We want to know!

So, how do we use this secular practice in a ministry setting?

In the life of the church, a good question can do more than fill silence—it can open hearts. Magical questions create moments of connection and trust, reminding us that ministry is about people, not just programs.

Jesus often began with questions: “Who do you say that I am?” “What do you want me to do for you?” “Do you love me?” His questions invited reflection and encounter, not easy answers. Magical questions work in that same spirit—they create space for story, and in the sharing of story, people meet God.

Here are a few magic—or maybe wondering—questions you might try in your own ministry setting:

  • What’s one moment when you felt God’s presence in a surprising way?
  • What’s a story from your life that still teaches you something?
  • What’s a question you wish people would ask you—but never do?
  • What’s your favorite potluck dish—and why?

Questions in Different Contexts

1. Staff or Leadership Meetings

Begin with a question that centers the group in grace:

“What’s something that recently gave you hope?”

“Who has modeled kindness for you this week?”

It turns the meeting from task-oriented to heart-centered.


2. Small Groups or Bible Studies

Open with a question before diving into the text:

“When have you been surprised by someone’s generosity?”

“What story from your life still teaches you something?”

People engage scripture more deeply when they’ve already connected to their own stories.


3. Youth or Children’s Ministry

Younger participants respond best to playful yet thoughtful questions:

“If you could thank God for one weird or wonderful thing this week, what would it be?”

“What’s something small that made your day better?”

They’ll laugh first—and then start listening to each other differently.


4. Pastoral Visits or Care Conversations

Sometimes the right question opens a door that comfort alone can’t:

“When have you felt God’s presence in a surprising way?”

“Who has taught you what love looks like?”

A question like this makes room for honesty, memory, and faith.


5. In the Pulpit

Example: On November 9, our congregation (Grace UMC, Columbia) will experience this practice together in worship. The scripture will be The Widow’s Mite (Mark 12:38–44)—a story of small faith and great generosity. Jesus notices a woman giving two coins, and he calls it the greatest gift of all because it comes from her heart.

It’s a perfect moment for a magical question—one that helps us connect our own lives to hers. After reading the story, we’ll invite the congregation to reflect and share around one of these prompts that goes with the text for the day:

  • Tell a story about a time when a small act of generosity—yours or someone else’s—made a big difference.
  • Who is someone who taught you what generosity looks like?
  • What’s a simple thing that always feels like a gift to you?
  • What’s something small that made your day recently?

These questions bridge scripture and life. They help people notice how God multiplies even the smallest gifts, how grace often begins in the quiet corners of our stories. When the church becomes a place where people share and listen like that, we glimpse the kingdom of God among us.

A Final note:

As with all good ministry, the key is discernment: read the room, start light, and be willing to go first. A magical—or wondering—question only works when it’s asked with genuine curiosity and care.

The next time your group gathers, try asking one. Watch how people lean in. You may find that what begins as conversation becomes something sacred—a reminder that even in ordinary talk, grace is waiting to be discovered.

Magic questions and the power of exchanging stories, upcoming opportunity at Grace United Methodist Church

When people gather—whether around a dinner table, in a church meeting, or after worship—conversation often skims the surface. We ask how the weather’s been or how someone’s week went, but we rarely ask questions that reveal who people truly are. In pastoral ministry, those surface conversations can be the easy default, even when what we long for is connection that feels real and alive.

Priya Parker, author of The Art of Gathering, offers a simple but transformative idea: ask magical questions. “A magical question,” she says, “is a question that everyone in your group is interested in answering—and hearing the answers to.” These questions cut through small talk and help people feel seen as individuals rather than part of a crowd.

Magical questions aren’t icebreakers or gimmicks; they are invitations. Parker gives examples like:

  • What was the first concert you went to, and who took you?

  • What’s a path you almost took but didn’t?

  • What’s a gift you got that you deeply loved?

They spark curiosity and story. The magic lies in how they draw out our shared humanity—our humor, our memories, our values. Everyone can answer, and everyone wants to listen.

For ministry, that’s a sacred pattern. The right question can open the door to deeper faith, empathy, and spiritual growth. Jesus himself often led with questions: “Who do you say that I am?” “What do you want me to do for you?” His questions invited reflection and transformation. They didn’t fill the silence with certainty—they made room for encounter.

And that is the heart of what we hope to do at Grace UMC as we practice story exchange this fall.

Through our participation in the Children’s Ministry Grant, Grace has received training in the Narrative 4 Story Exchange, a model used around the world to help people build empathy through storytelling. In a story exchange, two people share personal stories in response to a common prompt. Then, each one retells their partner’s story as if it were their own. It’s a simple but profound act of listening and imagination—stepping into another’s experience with reverence and care.

Narrative 4 calls this practice “expanding the lungs of the world.” It helps us breathe in one another’s lives and exhale compassion. It reminds us that every person carries a story worth hearing, and that empathy grows not from agreement but from attention.

When we combine the art of the magical question with the spirit of story exchange, something sacred happens. A well-crafted question—one rooted in curiosity, scripture, and care—creates space for stories that matter. And when those stories are shared, heard, and spoken again, they become community.

This November,  Sunday November 9th in our "Let Me Tell You A Story" worship series, we’ll bring these ideas together. Using a “magical question” drawn from that week’s scripture, we’ll engage in a guided story exchange—adapted for worship but true to the spirit of Narrative 4. Together, we’ll listen, share, and discover how God is revealed through one another’s stories.

Because in the end, the Gospel itself is a story exchange: God steps into our story, and we are invited into God’s. And when we ask good questions and listen with love, we catch a glimpse of that holy exchange happening right here among us. Amen. 

Monday, September 29, 2025

Michaelmas, September 29

Michaelmas: Courage for the Journey

September 29 is known in the Christian calendar as the Feast of St. Michael and All Angels, or simply Michaelmas. The name literally means “the Mass of Michael.” Traditionally, it honors the archangel Michael—“Mi-cha-el” in Hebrew meaning Who is like God?—who is depicted as a warrior angel standing strong against the dragon. St. George is seen as an earthly manifestation of St. Michael, the archangel. So, the story told at Michaelmas is of St. George and the dragon.  

Now, to be clear: this is not a United Methodist feast day, nor is it even a Protestant observance. But the Waldorf community, which we were a small part of for the boys preschool years, has kept this festival alive in a beautiful way, and I have come to adore it. 

Each year, the story of St. George and the dragon is told or acted out—sometimes with children forming the walls of the city, a dragon prowling outside, and the knight stepping forward with courage to protect the people. 

The story is dramatic, but it is also deeply true. Every life faces dragons: fear, self-doubt, anger, laziness, despair. These dragons can feel overwhelming. And yet, Michaelmas reminds us that courage, truth, and light are given to us for the fight. Dragons may roar, but they can be defeated.

As G.K. Chesterton once wrote, “Fairy tales do not tell children the dragons exist. Children already know that dragons exist. Fairy tales tell children the dragons can be killed.” Meaning that fairy tales are more than true because they offer hope and confirmation that evil can be defeated. That is the heart of Michaelmas. We do not need to be taught that fear and struggle exist...we know it well. What we need is the annual reminder that God gives us courage, that the light shines in the darkness, and that dragons, in the end, can be overcome.

As autumn deepens and the days grow shorter, I am grateful for this festival. I cherish its story, its truth, and its hope. Year after year, it whispers the promise we all need to hear: the dragons do not win. Dragons. Do. Not. Win.  Amen. 


Friday, July 18, 2025

Saturday July 19 Closing Devotion #ColaSalk 2025

 Closing Devotion: Made for More

Ephesians 2:10 CEB– "We are God’s accomplishment, created in Christ Jesus to do good things. God planned for these good things to be the way that we live our lives."

As you prepare to leave, remember that this week was never just about fixing a house—it was about transformation. The work you’ve done is important, but more important is the way God has shaped your heart. Take your symbol and all that it means to you into your life. You were made for more than this week, more than one act of service—you were made for a life of justice, love, and humility. Salkehatchie is not just a weeklong mission; it’s a way of living.

Carry what you’ve learned with you. Continue to seek ways to serve, to love, and to walk humbly with God. The world needs what you’ve discovered here. You have been consecrated, made holy, on purpose. Now go, and live out what God has begun in you.

Point to Ponder: How will you continue to live as someone made for more?"

Daily Prayer: Lord, I know who I am, because I know who you are. You are the God of justice, of mercy and of love. Help me to live into my identity as your child and into the truth that I was made for more. Help me to glorify you in all I say and do. Amen. 


Thursday, July 17, 2025

Friday July 18 on-site Devotion #ColaSalk 2025


 Friday: Day 5 – Finishing Strong

2 Timothy 4:7 – "I have fought the good fight, finished the race, and kept the faith."

The end is in sight. The house has changed, and so are you. Today is about finishing well—not just the project, but the way you’ve grown in faith and relationships. What you’ve done this week matters. You were made for more, and this is just the beginning.

Point to Ponder: How will you carry this experience home with you?


Reminder for campers: Don't forget your symbol! Symbols are something from this week's job site that remind you of this week or a moment when God was with you or when you knew you were "Made for More." It could be something that represents a challenge or learning moment or a JOY! You decide and then it's kind of like show-and-tell when we were kids. You'll have an opportunity to lay your symbol by the altar and share why your symbol is important to you. We will do this in the sanctuary tonight during worship and share Communion with one another. Ask a veteran camper to tell you more if you're new! It's one of my most favorite parts of #ColaSalk


Daily Prayer: Lord, I know who I am, because I know who you are. You are the God of justice, of mercy and of love. Help me to live into my identity as your child and into the truth that I was made for more. Help me to glorify you in all I say and do. Amen.

Wednesday, July 16, 2025

Thursday July 17 on-site Devotion #colaSalk 2025


 

Thursday: Day 4 – Running on Empty

Matthew 11:28 CEB – "Come to me, all you who are struggling hard and carrying heavy loads, and I will give you rest."

Fatigue sets in, and patience wears thin. Today is about pushing forward, setting the team up to finish tomorrow, but also remembering that rest and renewal are part of God’s rhythm. And, while we can’t nap today, we know rest isn’t always sleep. While we don’t need to disassociate with scrolling, something that might feel restful, but is not actually resting. Rest can be found in joy, in a moment of connection with one another. In moments of meaning. Look for moments of gratitude, it will help your energy. Notice how far you’ve come. Look for places of progress. Let God refill your spirit.

Point to Ponder: Where can you find rest in God today?

Daily Prayer: Lord, I know who I am, because I know who you are. You are the God of justice, of mercy and of love. Help me to live into my identity as your child and into the truth that I was made for more. Help me to glorify you in all I say and do. Amen. 


Tuesday, July 15, 2025

Wednesday July 16 On-Site Devotion #colaSalk 2025

 


Wednesday: Day 3 – Overwhelmed but Not Alone

Isaiah 41:10 CEB – "Don’t fear, because I am with you; don’t be afraid, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, I will surely help you; I will hold you with my righteous strong hand."

By midweek, the work may feel overwhelming. Maybe the project looks impossible, or your energy is running low. This is when teamwork and faith matter most. You were never meant to do this work alone. You were not meant to do the work of Salkehatchie AND the work of walking in your faith alone. The world likes to say that we are independent, self-made people but you and I know that everyone relies on someone else. We rely on Ashland UMC to house us, we rely on local churches to feed us, we rely on donations to do this work ... .we cannot do any of Salkehatchie without a really big team!  Rely on your team both here at the site and parts of the bigger team making camp happen and always on God’s strength. God promises strength.


Point to Ponder: How can you support someone else today?


Daily Prayer: Lord, I know who I am, because I know who you are. You are the God of justice, of mercy and of love. Help me to live into my identity as your child and into the truth that I was made for more. Help me to glorify you in all I say and do. Amen. 

Monday, July 14, 2025

Tuesday July 15 On-Site devotion #colaSalk 2025


Tuesday: Day 2 – When Things Get Real

Galatians 6:9 CEB – "Let’s not get tired of doing good, because in time we’ll have a harvest if we don’t give up."

Day two can be tough. The work is harder than expected, and things don’t always go as planned. Frustration might creep in. It is HOT! But God calls us to perseverance. When challenges arise, lean on each other, and remember that transformation—of homes and hearts—takes time. The work you are taking on matters. This work is more than sweat-equity into a home, your actions, words and deeds will also impact the team you are working with. Do not tire of doing good! You never know the harvest that will come from this work. 


Point to Ponder: Where do you see God in the struggles?


Daily Prayer:
Lord, I know who I am, because I know who you are. You are the God of justice, of mercy and of love. Help me to live into my identity as your child and into the truth that I was made for more. Help me to glorify you in all I say and do. Amen.

Sunday, July 13, 2025

Monday July 14 on-site Devotion #colaSalk 2025

Monday: Day 1 – Energy and Excitement

Colossians 3:23-24 CEBWhatever you do, do it from the heart for the Lord and not for people. You know that you will receive an inheritance as a reward. You serve the Lord Christ.

The first day is full of excitement and energy. You’re eager to jump in and make a difference. You are filled with righteous justice and abundant mercy. Today, remember that your work is an act of worship. It’s not about proving yourself but serving with a heart that honors God. Every nail, every board, every paint stroke is part of something bigger. What you are doing is important, but how you interact with the people matters too. Don’t get caught up in the task and miss the people or the moments of joy with one another! 

Point to Ponder: How can you serve with joy today?

Daily Prayer: Lord, I know who I am, because I know who you are. You are the God of justice, of mercy and of love. Help me to live into my identity as your child and into the truth that I was made for more. Help me to glorify you in all I say and do. Amen. 


Saturday, July 12, 2025

Saturday July 12 Devotion for evening worship July 12 #ColaSalk 2025

 Saturday: Welcome – Created for More

Micah 6:8 CEB – "He has told you, human one, what is good and what the Lord requires from you: to do justice, embrace faithful love, and walk humbly with your God."


Welcome to Salkehatchie! We are so glad you are here. Our theme this year is Made for More. It is a reminder that you were made for more than an ordinary life—you were made for love, service, and transformation. The heading for Micah 6:8 is What does the Lord Require of you? The prophet Micah teaches that we are required to do justice, love mercy and walk humbly with God. This week, you will be the hands and feet of Christ, learning to do justice, love mercy, and walk humbly. We invite you to be open to all that God has in store.


Point to Ponder: How do you hope to grow this week?


Daily Prayer*: Lord, I know who I am, because I know who you are. You are the God of justice, of mercy and of love. Help me to live into my identity as your child and into the truth that I was made for more. Help me to glorify you in all I say and do. Amen. 

*Campers will say this prayer each day with the homeowners and their site group. The hope is that repetition will reinforce the theme for the week and set their intention for the day, "help me to glorify You (God) in all I say and do."

Wednesday, July 9, 2025

Introduction to the Theme #ColaSalk 2025 July 12-19, 2025

 

Salkehatchie 2025 Devotions: Made for More

Theme overview:

This year is based on Micah 6:8 and the song, “Made for More” by Bethel Music, Jenn Johnson, and Josh Baldwin. The work we do at Salkehatchie is justice work, it is also a work of God’s mercy and this work should be done with humility or in some aspect will humble us. The format of the devotions is similar to previous years: scripture, devotion, ponder, prayer.  

Micah 6:8 CEB

What does the Lord require?

8 He has told you, human one, what is good and
        what the Lord requires from you:
            to do justice, embrace faithful love, and walk humbly with your God.

 
Key Lyrics “Made for More:”

I know who I am 'cause I know who You are

The cross of salvation was only the start

Now I am chosen, free and forgiven

I have a future and it's worth the living

'Cause I wasn't made to be tending a grave

I was called by name

Born and raised back to life again

I was made for more

So why would I make a bed in my shame

When a fountain of grace is running my way

I know I am Yours

And I was made for more